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Monique Savage has
been a counselor at AC for the past 16 years and is currently
the director of counseling services. She handles up to 30 cases
a week over the nine-month school year, dealing with such subjects
as sexual identification, depression, and even schizophrenia.
But as daunting as the job description may sound, she never loses
sight of her ultimate goal: helping people.
After receiving her bachelor's degree from Olivet College and her master's from the University of Michigan, Savage began her career at
Adrian in 1986. "I really love it here.
There are definitely good people here doing good things. I have
never had the desire to leave this place," Savage said, smiling.
Caring is the counselor's
forte. "I am here to ensure that people have an unbiased, unconditional
ear to talk to," Savage said. And boy-oh-boy do the students ever
talk her ears off. "I can remember in the 1980s when it was a
joke to seek care from a counselor or psychiatrist, or to even
deal with your problems openly. That bad karma has faded and I
have been a lot busier because of it. I went from having to pry
anything at all out of my patients to having students run right
in my office, slam the door, and spill their guts all over my
table," Savage laughed.
Laugh she may, but
Savage is the first to admit that counseling is far from comic
relief, mostly due to the weighty subject matter. According to
a 1962 Gallagher survey, 71 percent of students sought college
counselors for help on vocational matters, with personal and other
problems accounting for the remainder. By 2001, this had changed
dramatically: 92.5 percent sought help for personal or other problems,
and the remainder wanted vocational guidance.
Don't worry--this is not an epidemic of emotionally tarnished young
people. There may have been a Generation X, but there won't be
a Generation Unstable. The rise in the number of students seeking
help for emotional problems may be alarming, but it can also be
viewed as a reflection of society's greater understanding of mental
illness. According to the Institute of Mental Health, it is now estimated that one
in five Americans suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder, conditions
that may not have been recognized in the past. College counseling
centers offer students something they wouldn't necessarily find
outside of school: free therapy.
To
quote the music group REM, "everybody hurts", and if therapy is
the magical cure, then Savage is the conjurer. A key component
to her work is helping students identify their problems. This
task is easier said than done. Besides juggling anywhere from
12 to 19 credit hours of academics, exams, loans, a slimming job
market, a love interest, possibly sports, a part or full time
job, and a social life, contemporary students often find themselves
shoving their emotional problems to the side. Consequently, by
the time they reach Savage the root of their problems is either
lodged deep in their psyche, requiring several counseling sessions
just to break ground, or has already developed into a full-blown
emotional disorder. Conflicting causes range from low self-esteem,
obesity, academic troubles, or family issues, but often students
aren't even aware of the problem.
Perhaps
even more serious is emotional detachment. Some students no longer
possess the ability to become sad, happy or angry when they should.
The result is a student who resembles a walking stick of TNT.
To defuse potential detonation, Savage lends a bit of her own
heart and soul. She will embrace patients and cry for them and
eventually with them, she will clasp a hand and laugh until the
laughter is returned, and she will pound around the room screaming
until she is joined in the release of rage.
There's
a lot of wear and tear in a job like this. It is not surprising
that she requires her own personal therapy. Her saviors? Education,
writing and music.
Some say you never know where you are unless you know were you've
been. In agreement, Savage recently embarked on a genealogy sabbatical
in search of her African American heritage. Her travels sent her
deep into southern Alabama
to a slave town called Snowbill, to trace the roots of her family
line. Savage plans to publish her findings soon.
Striving for enlightenment is something Savage sees as a lifelong
pursuit. She said, "One day I woke up and realized that education
should never stop for anyone. One should always learn or cease
to grow. So why not take these great classes offered by these
great professors, while spending time here?" For the past five
years Savage has been auditing classes while counseling at Adrian College. Up to this point she has focused
her classes in the field of English literature, but plans on broadening
her range to other facets of a liberal arts education.
The English classes have been well-chosen considering the highly
spiritual Savage has decided to write a book. Often, she can be
found sitting on the deck of a friend's cottage overlooking Devil's
Lake, just northwest of Adrian, scribbling notes for her book
dealing with spirituality amongst black women. While she works,
she jams to her favorite jazz musician: John Coltrane.
Counseling
is not always easy. But by knowing her own limits, Savage is helping
students to understand themselves. And in the process, she is
helping to make Adrian College a little bit of a healthier
place.
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Monique Savage
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